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The Signs That You Are Addicted To Investing

By Andrew Block


Investing and using your money to make more money is something that all of us try to do in one form or another. The desire to put our money to work for us and to gain more money in the process beats digging a hole and burying it in the back yard any day of the week. Investing can become an addition and one that destroys savings, families and lives every year. Is your investing becoming something bigger than life and threatening to take over your life?

The emotions that follow a successful investment are unlike any other that you may ever experience. Finding a solid investment vehicle and researching the investment. Looking at the market carefully and then coming up with a game plan is thrilling. You enter the market and invest your money and then this is where the real fun starts. You're in and your heart is beating in your chest. You watch with anticipation as it all plays out as you had hoped. You sell off the investment, collect your reward and the rush of emotions flood your body. There is nothing like it in the world and you're hooked. You want that feeling again and again but you know that this thrill is only part of the process of investing.

Allowing these emotions to grab hold of us and begin to rule us can happen very quickly if we're not careful. The mistake many of us make is to believe that if we make money in an investment then we are a winner. Likewise, it's tempting to feel that if an investment turns on us and we lose money then we are the opposite of a winner or a loser. This can lead us to chase those positive emotions and make poor decisions when it comes to investing in hope of not feeling like a loser. This is where the addiction begins.

It can be tempting to check the status of your investments a couple of times a day. The childlike glee that we get when we see that an investment has improved or a stock has gone up in price brings a smile to our face. Of course, if you find yourself glued to the computer screen refreshing the page you might have a problem. If you mood and how you feel about yourself and those around you is affected by what you see then you need to check your emotions. Being nervous or overly concerned about an investment that you have researched and done your due diligence with is insanity. You have safeguards in place, such as stops and sell orders, which will take care of losing too much money and selling your stock or option when your predetermined price has been reached. Also, if you find yourself moving your stops and sell orders because you don't want to lose or because you are feeling greedy then you might have a problem.

Going to extremes to find stock tips or advice about investments from dubious sources is another sign that you might be dealing with an addiction rather than a desire to make good investment decisions. Subscribing to stock tip newsletters that tell you which stocks or investments are primed to move on any given day is a sign that you're grasping at straws for investment advice. Often these newsletters themselves are the reason behind the jump in price and the owners of the newsletter have already put their money in place and are simply using people like you to pump the price up artificially. Steer clear of nameless, faceless advice. You are being used and this is not investment advice at all that you are receiving.

There's a pretty good chance that you have a type of investment that you prefer. There is probably an area that you have some specialized knowledge in or a keen interest. You enjoy learning more about stock, bond, futures, foreign exchange or precious metals investing. While you might have always dreamed of branching out and learning about other forms of investing, jumping into an investment without having a good knowledge of the market because of emotions is a bad move. It can be tempting to take the advice of a good friend or business partner but check your motives. Are you investing because you have an interest in the investment or because you want to turn a quick buck? Look before you leap and understand the market unless you are fully prepared to lose the money that you're investing anyhow.

Often the bottom is reached and a good investor turned back realizes his or her folly as they figuratively lay in the gutter looking up at a loved one after they invested a good portion of money that they shouldn't have. Investing money that was put aside to pay bills or in a savings account for a child's education or for a special purpose is often the last straw. Lying to yourself or your spouse or partner about money is a sure sign that you have a problem. Withholding the truth is also just another form of lying and if you find yourself tempted to invest money that has not been set aside for investing then it's time to stop and take a careful look at yourself and your behavior. Be honest with yourself. Be honest with your spouse or partner. It might be the best thing that you ever did in your life and you very well might avoid total financial and emotional ruin if you have a problem.

Investing is a wonderful thing to do with your money. Over the long run, you will find that if you make intelligent choices based upon both facts and your feel for a market, you can do very well. The temptation to let your emotions get the better of you and force you to make decision that you otherwise might never make is a sign that something is wrong. Take this seriously. You obviously have a talent and a desire to make more of your life. Keep your emotions in check and don't let investing become an addiction for you.




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